tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-79935187185889528922024-03-15T00:51:50.640+13:00True ParadigmThoughts on Scripture, interpretation, and what Scripture might have to say about contemporary issues.bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.comBlogger1382125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-53665174553584359372022-10-10T08:00:00.001+13:002022-10-10T08:00:00.215+13:00Monday quote<p>The vileness of the means begets the vileness of the result.</p><p>Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn (1918–2008). “Live Not by Lies.” 1974.</p>bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-71998915546398420532022-03-07T08:00:00.001+13:002022-03-07T08:00:00.216+13:00Monday quote<p>The question you are being asked is not always the question that needs to be answered.</p>bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-47271060348856211702022-02-28T08:00:00.001+13:002022-02-28T08:00:00.268+13:00Monday quote<p>Without freedom of thought there can be no such thing as wisdom; and no such thing as public liberty, without freedom of speech.</p><p>Benjamin Franklin</p>bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-22673056374242841792022-02-21T08:00:00.002+13:002022-02-26T15:24:29.475+13:00Monday quote<p>Truth is not only violated by falsehood; it may be equally outraged by silence.</p><p>Henri Frederic Amiel</p>bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-50727261696113322102022-02-14T08:00:00.001+13:002022-02-26T15:48:41.637+13:00Monday quote<p>Sin will take you further than you intended to go. It will keep you longer than you intended to stay. And it will cost you more than you intended to pay.</p>bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-70592722312137328722022-02-07T08:00:00.002+13:002022-02-26T16:11:28.867+13:00Monday quote<p>The heresies that men do leave/</p><p>Are hated most of those they did deceive.</p><p>William Shakespeare. <i>A Midsummer Night's Dream</i>.</p>bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-34414793520435075602022-01-31T08:00:00.001+13:002022-02-26T15:46:23.923+13:00Monday quote<p>Remember when we were kids and we'd say, "I can't wait until I get older and can do whatever I want!" So, how's that working for you?</p>bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-40887260947289098662022-01-24T08:00:00.001+13:002022-02-26T15:33:30.350+13:00Monday quote<p>Righteousness that can be sold at a profit is always so much more attractive than righteousness that must be purchased by self-sacrifice.</p><p>Carl Truman</p>bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-28767136853214316222022-01-17T08:00:00.001+13:002022-02-26T15:24:14.971+13:00Monday quote<p>When we're talking about GDP per capita we're not talking about bigger houses, we're talking about fewer dead children.</p><p>Jerry Bowyer.</p>bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-34353399438979300282022-01-10T08:00:00.002+13:002022-02-26T15:24:58.747+13:00Monday quote<p>What is it that people miss so much that they devote a large proportion of our culture's artistic output to mourning its loss? God.</p><p>Peter S Williams. <i>A Faithful Guide to Philosophy</i>.</p>bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-9368589947371428552022-01-03T08:00:00.001+13:002022-01-03T08:00:00.207+13:00Monday quote<p>God does not reckon failures and victories the same way we do. Men often lose their souls while gaining the world, and they often gain their souls while apparently losing everything.</p><p>Douglas Wilson</p>bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-4833237507331729992021-12-27T08:00:00.005+13:002022-02-26T15:25:17.052+13:00Monday quote<p>When goodness, truth, and beauty are combined we have glory. When boundless goodness, total truth, and sublime beauty are combined in supreme degree, we have divine glory.</p><p>Richard Harries. <i>Art and the Beauty of God: A Christian Understanding</i>.</p>bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-86554719309936727692021-12-20T08:00:00.001+13:002022-02-26T15:09:03.811+13:00Monday quote<p>One views liberty as the freedom to do what we <i>ought</i>, while the other views liberty as the freedom to do what we <i>want</i>.</p><p><a href="https://www.cato-unbound.org/2013/05/13/jordan-ballor/avoiding-confusionism">Jordan Ballor</a>.</p><div><br /></div>bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-56524328804068862732021-12-13T08:00:00.001+13:002022-02-26T15:07:15.247+13:00Monday quote<p>I am far less afraid of forms of power than I am of concentration of power. Kings whose scope of power is limited are less frightening than elected legislatures with no limits on what they can do.</p><p>Jerry Pournelle</p>bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-55941367168209216292021-12-06T08:00:00.001+13:002021-12-06T08:00:00.201+13:00Monday quote<p>If I die without food or without eternal salvation, I want to die without food.</p><p>David Green</p>bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-28971331689687388692021-11-29T08:00:00.001+13:002021-11-29T08:00:00.361+13:00Monday quote<p>To compel a man to subsidize with his taxes the propagation of ideas which he disbelieves and abhors is sinful and tyrannical.</p><p>Jefferson</p>bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-65415248852443198172021-11-22T08:00:00.001+13:002021-11-22T08:00:00.262+13:00Monday quote<p>We scoff at honour, and wonder why there are thieves among us.</p><p>CS Lewis. <i>The Abolition of Man</i>.</p>bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-42175573183540884582021-11-15T08:00:00.001+13:002021-11-21T14:20:43.217+13:00Monday quote<p>Inflation: cutting money in half without damaging the paper.</p><div><br /></div>bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-60388375466011826072021-11-08T08:00:00.003+13:002021-11-08T08:00:00.204+13:00Monday quote<p>What is intolerable to the (assisted suicide advocate) is not suffering or dying, but not having control over life and death.</p><p>Eric Chevlen</p>bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-46335460913131883142021-11-01T08:00:00.003+13:002021-11-21T14:37:59.767+13:00Monday quote<p>The true way to shorten a sermon, is to make it more interesting.</p><p>H.W. Beecher.</p>bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-91198964991663489142021-10-25T08:00:00.005+13:002021-10-25T08:00:00.263+13:00Monday quote<p>The wise king is not the universal expert. Rather, he is to be someone with mastery of the task of judgment. And he exercises such judgment well through his gifts in the discerning, taking, and weighing of expert counsel. Ruling with expert counsellors is a rather different thing from rule by experts.</p><p>Alastair Roberts.</p>bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-8053969723103241152021-10-18T08:00:00.000+13:002021-10-23T07:41:19.696+13:00Monday quote<p>All the inhabitants of the world should know that the power of kings is vain and trivial, and that none is worthy of the name of king but he whose command the heaven, earth and sea obey by eternal laws.</p><p>King Canute (c.990–1035), king of England (1016–), Denmark (1018–) and Norway (1028–1035).</p>bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-75978066511213131572021-10-11T08:00:00.001+13:002021-10-11T08:00:00.279+13:00Monday quote<p>Information is always "metachemical" with reference to the information carrier just as "software" is always "metaphysical" with reference to the "hardware". Information cannot be measured by physics and chemistry nor be described and certainly not be explained....</p><p>Reinhard Eichelbeck. The Darwin Conspiracy. Rise and fall of a pseudo-scientific worldview. (Das Darwin-Komplott. Aufstieg und Fall eines pseudowissenschaftlichen Weltbildes.)</p><div><br /></div>bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-50172418439106238242021-10-06T08:00:00.005+13:002021-10-06T15:29:30.187+13:00Marital rape<p>There are arguments for and against the proposition that a husband can rape his wife. The disagreements are, in part, over what the phrase actually means. When one asks if a husband can rape his wife there are several different questions one could be asking.</p>
<ol style="text-align: left;"><li>Is a man able to force his wife to have sex against her will?</li><li>Does sex with one’s wife against her will constitute rape?</li><li>Does marriage give a man permanent consent to sex with his wife?</li><li>Is a wife permitted to refuse to have sex with her husband?</li><li>May a husband override his wife’s refusal of sex?</li><li>Should the state legislate marital rape laws?</li></ol><p></p><p>All these are related but distinct questions. They are questions that might be assumed but not articulated when discussing the issue of marital rape. Throughout I am discussing the situation of a husband physically forcing his wife to have sex while she is trying to prevent him. Similar responses would relevant for a wife physically forcing sex with her husband against his will, although that would seem to be an uncommon situation.</p>
<p>Question 1 may be what some people mean by the question: Can a husband rape his wife? Many men are physically capable of forcing sex on a woman when she is unwilling, and that remains the case in marriage. If a wife absolutely refuses sex with her husband, it is the case that many husbands would be physically capable of forcing coitus. Question 1 is obviously true. It is in the other questions where the debate really lies.</p><p>In Paul’s letter to the Corinthians, Paul argues that in matters of sex, the husband and wife no longer retain dominion of their own bodies. Husbands are not to refuse wives and wives are not to refuse husbands.</p>
<blockquote><p>The husband must fulfill his obligation to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but her husband does. And likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but his wife does. Do not defraud one another, except perhaps by agreement, for a time, in order that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and then you should be together again, lest Satan tempt you because of your lack of self control. (1Co 7:3-5 LEB)</p></blockquote>
<p>That Paul is commanding this to the husbands and wives means that there is a possibility that a spouse may refuse sex. Paul states that refusal is forbidden, moreover that the refusal of sex is fraudulent behaviour towards one’s spouse. But note who the command is given to: the command is given to the husband to fulfill his obligation and the wife to fulfill hers. There is no command that states that if a husband or wife refuses then the other is entitled to force the non-compliant spouse. The question of forcing sex is not being addressed by Paul here, rather the question of refusing sex. A wife could wrongly refuse sex and a husband could, in response to being wronged, wrongly force it. And it would seem from elsewhere in the Bible that obtaining what one is otherwise entitled to by force can be wrong. The principles of laying down one’s life for another, of loving to our own detriment, of fighting battles for others and asking God to fight our battles, of turning the other cheek; these biblical principles are all consistent with not forcing sex when a spouse wrongly refuses it.</p><p>So why does Paul give these commands to the Corinthians? Because they were needed. Men and women in Corinth may have been refusing sex to their spouses—though possibly out of a pious motive of a perceived heightened spirituality. Of course this is not true piety, it is not more spiritual to break one’s marriage vows however pious one claims to be otherwise. The Pharisees excused a son’s obligations to his parents if he offered service to God instead. Jesus rebuked false piety and noted that it is in fact rejecting God’s commandment (Mark 7:9-11). Marriage is a commitment between one man and one woman for life with sexual fidelity. As such, marriage vows are an agreement to be both only and always sexually faithful to one’s wife. In modern parlance, marriage vows are a permanent consent to sex with one’s spouse.</p><p>This is why the terminology of “rape” is so difficult to apply. How do you apply an idea about consent, or lack thereof, in a situation where permanent consent has been vowed? The idea that a spouse can consent, or not, to sex on a daily or hourly basis in antithetical to marriage vows. The question of marital rape is asked in a language (or culture) of consent whereas the Bible has a language of sexual fidelity. Sex outside of marriage is wrong regardless of the amount of consent given by both parties. And sex inside of marriage is what has been vowed. The whole question of marital rape would seem absurd to many women in ancient times. “What do you mean you refuse to have sex with your husband because you don’t <i>want</i> to?”</p>bethyadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08990677679970591625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7993518718588952892.post-55769017500490803862021-10-04T09:00:00.001+13:002021-10-07T20:21:28.812+13:00Monday quotePerfection is not when you have nothing to add. It's when you have nothing to take away.<br />
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